The Boyfriend List

E. Lockheart

The Boyfriend List

Age Rating, Reading Level & Content Guide

15 Guys, 11 Shrink Appointments, 4 Ceramic Frogs and Me, Ruby Oliver

by E. Lockheart

Reading Level 6 11ME Ages 9-12 Matched

The text is written at a 6th grade reading level, the subject matter is intended for middle graders (ages 9–12), and the content has moderate intensity with some emotionally heavy themes.

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About This Book

Have you ever had one of those weeks where everything seems to go wrong? Ruby Oliver just lost her boyfriend, her best friend, and even became a social outcast all in ten days. What will she do next when the world around her feels upside down?

Themes

Friendship Coming of Age Family HumorMental HealthIdentity & Self-Discovery

Quick Assessment

The Boyfriend List follows 15-year-old Ruby Oliver as she navigates the ups and downs of middle school, including friendship troubles, first experiences with alcohol, and mental health challenges like panic attacks. Suitable for ages 9-12, this middle-grade novel addresses real-life issues with humor and heart, though parents should be aware of themes like underage drinking and emotional distress.

Why we rated The Boyfriend List 11ME

The Boyfriend List is written at a Level 6 reading level across 242 pages. Strong independent readers around grade 7.0 can typically handle this book on their own; with parent or teacher support, The Boyfriend List works for readers up to grade 8.0.

We rate The Boyfriend List as 11ME ("Moderate — Emotional") because the content sits in the "Moderate" range — moderate conflict that may involve loss, scary scenes, or interpersonal stakes. The strongest signals come from emotional weight — these are the dimensions parents should evaluate against their reader's tolerance.

Specific content flags noted by reviewers: Panic Attack, Underage Drinking, Emotional Distress, Friendship Loss.

Thematically, The Boyfriend List explores friendship, coming of age, family, humor, and mental health — these threads give the book room to mean different things to different readers.

Good fit for

✓ Children in the Ages 9-12 range — the maturity and attention span match the story's pacing.
✓ Patient readers who enjoy slower, character-driven stories.
✓ Readers ready to talk through themes after they finish — there's enough substance for a meaningful conversation.
✓ Kids drawn to stories about friendship, coming of age, family.

Maybe not for

! Readers who get easily upset by emotional or moderately dark scenes — the conflict here is real, not just background flavor.
! Children currently coping with grief — the themes may hit close to home.
! Reluctant readers who need a fast hook — the pacing here rewards patience.

For Parents

Content Intensity

11ME — Moderate — Emotional

Emotional

Moderate ←

Physical

Clear

Social

Clear

Thematic

Clear

Real stakes and emotional weight. May include sustained danger, loss, or bullying.

Content Flags

Panic Attack Underage Drinking Emotional Distress Friendship Loss

Data confidence: standard

Was our "Moderate" content intensity rating accurate for this book?

Reading Insights

Hook Factor

2/10

A steady, thoughtful read that rewards patient readers.

Discussion Potential

4/10

Good conversation starter with themes worth exploring together.

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