The boyfriend list

E. Lockhart

The boyfriend list

Age Rating, Reading Level & Content Guide

(15 guys, 11 shrink appointments, 4 ceramic frogs, and me, Ruby Oliver)

by E. Lockhart

Reading Level 4-5 9ME Ages 13+ Matched

The text is written at a 4th grade reading level, the subject matter is intended for teens (ages 13+), and the content has moderate intensity with some emotionally heavy themes.

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About This Book

Ruby Oliver is juggling the chaos of heartbreak, fading friendships, and family drama, all while trying to make sense of her own feelings. As she navigates the ups and downs of high school life, Ruby learns what it truly means to grow up and face her fears. Her story captures the messy, real moments of being a teenager trying to find her place.

Themes

Friendship Coming of Age FamilyInterpersonal RelationsDatingHigh School Life

Quick Assessment

This is a Level 4-5 book with moderate content intensity. Content themes include emotional: anxiety, emotional: divorce & family change, emotional: friendship issues. Written for readers ages 13+.

Why we rated The boyfriend list 9ME

The boyfriend list is written at a Level 4-5 reading level across 229 pages (approximately 49,684 words). Strong independent readers around grade 5.7 can typically handle this book on their own; with parent or teacher support, The boyfriend list works for readers up to grade 6.7.

Read aloud, The boyfriend list runs about 5.5 hours — long enough to span several bedtime sessions.

We rate The boyfriend list as 9ME ("Moderate — Emotional") because the content sits in the "Moderate" range — moderate conflict that may involve loss, scary scenes, or interpersonal stakes. The strongest signals come from emotional weight — these are the dimensions parents should evaluate against their reader's tolerance.

Specific content flags noted by reviewers: Emotional: Anxiety, Emotional: Divorce & Family Change, Emotional: Friendship Issues.

Thematically, The boyfriend list explores friendship, coming of age, family, interpersonal relations, and dating — these threads give the book room to mean different things to different readers.

Good fit for

✓ Children in the Ages 13+ range — the maturity and attention span match the story's pacing.
✓ Readers who like a steady plot with enough momentum to keep pages turning.
✓ Readers ready to talk through themes after they finish — there's enough substance for a meaningful conversation.
✓ Kids drawn to stories about friendship, coming of age, family.
✓ Readers who fall hard for one book and want a long series to live in — there are 3 more books in the Ruby Oliver series.

Maybe not for

! Readers who get easily upset by emotional or moderately dark scenes — the conflict here is real, not just background flavor.

For Parents

Content Intensity

9ME — Moderate — Emotional

Emotional

Moderate ←

Physical

Clear

Social

Clear

Thematic

Clear

Real stakes and emotional weight. May include sustained danger, loss, or bullying.

Content Flags

Emotional: Anxiety Emotional: Divorce & Family Change Emotional: Friendship Issues

Data confidence: standard

Was our "Moderate" content intensity rating accurate for this book?

Reading Insights

Hook Factor

5/10

Engaging read with solid pacing and interesting themes.

Discussion Potential

4/10

Good conversation starter with themes worth exploring together.

Book DNA

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Theme Richness

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