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The upside of unrequited
Becky Albertalli
The upside of unrequited
Age Rating, Reading Level & Content Guide
by Becky Albertalli
The text is written at a 7th grade reading level, the subject matter is intended for middle graders (ages 9–12), and the content has moderate intensity with some emotionally heavy themes.
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About This Book
Here's a secret: Molly Peskin-Suso has been dodging heartbreak her whole life because rejection feels impossible to handle. But when her twin sister falls head over heels for a new girl, everything starts to change—including Molly’s own surprising feelings. And that’s just the beginning.
About & Banning Context
In this relatable story, 17-year-old Molly Peskin-Suso navigates the complexities of love and self-acceptance while dealing with her insecurities about body image. Despite her twin sister Cassie's encouragement to take risks in romance, Molly is hesitant to face the possibility of rejection. As Cassie becomes infatuated with a new girlfriend, Molly grapples with feelings of loneliness and the desire for her own romantic connection. When a charming boy linked to Cassie's new relationship enters the picture, Molly sees a chance for her first kiss. However, her growing friendship with Reid, a fellow coworker who shares her interests, complicates her feelings and challenges her preconceived notions about attraction and love.
- ● 2021 Eliot Rosewater Indiana High School Book Award, nominee (2020)
- ● 2019 Georgia Peach Teen Book Award, nominee (2018)
- ● ALA Rainbow Book List (2018)
- ● TAYSHAS High School Reading List (2018)
- ● Silver Inky, long list (2018)
- ● Chicago Public Library’s Best of the Best Books (2017)
- ● Nerdy Book Club Award, winner (2017)
- ● New York Public Library Best Books of the Year (2017)
- + 2 more
Themes
Quick Assessment
This middle-grade novel explores themes of sisterhood, identity, and first love with humor and heart. It addresses anxiety, body image, and the challenges of unrequited love through relatable characters, including LGBTQ+ representation. While appropriate for ages 9-12, parents should note content warnings for an anxiety attack, body dysmorphia, hate speech, fat jokes, and a vomiting scene.
Why we rated The upside of unrequited 12ME
The upside of unrequited is written at a Level 7 reading level across 340 pages. Strong independent readers around grade 8.0 can typically handle this book on their own; with parent or teacher support, The upside of unrequited works for readers up to grade 9.0.
We rate The upside of unrequited as 12ME ("Moderate — Emotional") because the content sits in the "Moderate" range — moderate conflict that may involve loss, scary scenes, or interpersonal stakes. The strongest signals come from emotional weight, social complexity — these are the dimensions parents should evaluate against their reader's tolerance.
Specific content flags noted by reviewers: Anxiety Attack, Body Dysmorphia, Hate Speech, Fat Jokes, Vomiting.
Thematically, The upside of unrequited explores lgbtq+ representation, friendship, family, romance, and anxiety disorders — these threads give the book room to mean different things to different readers.
Good fit for
- ✓ Children in the Ages 9-12 range — the maturity and attention span match the story's pacing.
- ✓ Patient readers who enjoy slower, character-driven stories.
- ✓ Kids drawn to stories about lgbtq+ representation, friendship, family.
- ✓ Readers (and parents) who care about award-recognized writing — The upside of unrequited carries an award.
Maybe not for
- ! Readers who get easily upset by emotional or moderately dark scenes — the conflict here is real, not just background flavor.
- ! Reluctant readers who need a fast hook — the pacing here rewards patience.
For Parents
Content Intensity
12ME — Moderate — EmotionalReal stakes and emotional weight. May include sustained danger, loss, or bullying.
Content Flags
Was our "Moderate" content intensity rating accurate for this book?
Reading Insights
Hook Factor
1/10A steady, thoughtful read that rewards patient readers.
Discussion Potential
3/10A lighter read — great for independent enjoyment.
Book DNA
Multi-dimensional content fingerprint
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Details
Book Length
- ISBN
- 9780062348708
- Pages
- 340
- Publisher
- Balzer + Bray
- Published
- 2017
- Type
- Fiction