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The kind of friends we used to be

Frances O'Roark Dowell

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The kind of friends we used to be

Age Rating, Reading Level & Content Guide

by Frances O'Roark Dowell

Reading Level 6 11LE Ages 9-12 Balanced Read

The text is written at a 6th grade reading level, the subject matter is intended for middle graders (ages 9–12), and the content is mild with minimal sensitive material.

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About This Book

Friendship can change in ways you never expect — especially when twelve-year-olds Kate and Marylin start chasing totally different dreams. One dives into cheerleading and student government, while the other strums her guitar and writes songs. How far can friendship stretch before it breaks or grows stronger?

Quick Assessment

This middle-grade novel explores the evolving friendship between two twelve-year-old girls as their interests and social circles shift in middle school. It thoughtfully addresses themes of change, identity, and the challenges of growing up, making it appropriate for readers aged 9-12. There are no intense content warnings, and the story encourages empathy and understanding during transitional years.

Why we rated The kind of friends we used to be 11LE

The kind of friends we used to be is written at a Level 6 reading level across 234 pages. Strong independent readers around grade 7.0 can typically handle this book on their own; with parent or teacher support, The kind of friends we used to be works for readers up to grade 8.0.

We rate The kind of friends we used to be as 11LE ("Light — Emotional") because the content sits in the "Mild" range — mild conflict — the kind a child encounters in normal play and sibling life. Across our four dimensions (emotional, physical, social, thematic) the book reads as evenly mild; no single dimension stands out as a concern.

No specific content flags were raised by community reviewers, which is consistent with the mild intensity score.

Thematically, The kind of friends we used to be explores friendship, coming of age, family, and school — these threads give the book room to mean different things to different readers.

Good fit for

  • Children in the Ages 9-12 range — the maturity and attention span match the story's pacing.
  • Patient readers who enjoy slower, character-driven stories.
  • Kids drawn to stories about friendship, coming of age, family.

Maybe not for

  • ! Reluctant readers who need a fast hook — the pacing here rewards patience.

For Parents

Content Intensity

11LE — Light — Emotional
Emotional
Light
Physical
Clear
Social
Clear
Thematic
Light

Light conflict or tension. Mild peril resolved quickly.

Data confidence: standard

Was our "Mild" content intensity rating accurate for this book?

Reading Insights

Hook Factor

1/10

A steady, thoughtful read that rewards patient readers.

Discussion Potential

3/10

A lighter read — great for independent enjoyment.

Book DNA

Multi-dimensional content fingerprint

Vocabulary Level
5
Emotional Weight
4
Theme Richness
4
World Scope
1
Data Confidence
7

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Details

Book Length

234 pages
ISBN
9780545293952
Pages
234
Publisher
Scholastic
Published
2010
Type
Fiction

Genres

Subjects

Middle SchoolsSchoolsBest FriendsFriendship