Stand Up, Shake Hands, Say How Do You Do
Marjabelle Young Stewart
Stand Up, Shake Hands, Say How Do You Do
Age Rating, Reading Level & Content Guide
What Boys Need to Know about Today's Manners
by Marjabelle Young Stewart
The text is written at a 4th grade reading level, the subject matter is intended for teens (ages 13+), and the content is gentle with no concerning themes.
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About This Book
The clink of silverware and the soft murmur of polite conversation fill the room. Imagine knowing just when to stand, how to shake hands, and what to say to make a great first impression. These little acts of kindness and confidence can open doors to new friendships and adventures.
Themes
Quick Assessment
This guide offers practical advice on manners and etiquette tailored for boys ages 6 to 12, helping them build confidence in social situations. It covers everything from handshakes and table manners to conversations and hosting, promoting respectful and gracious behavior that supports positive social development. Suitable for young readers and useful for parents and educators aiming to teach everyday courtesy.
Why we rated Stand Up, Shake Hands, Say How Do You Do 9C
Stand Up, Shake Hands, Say How Do You Do is written at a Level 4-5 reading level across 134 pages. Strong independent readers around grade 5.5 can typically handle this book on their own; with parent or teacher support, Stand Up, Shake Hands, Say How Do You Do works for readers up to grade 6.5.
We rate Stand Up, Shake Hands, Say How Do You Do as 9C ("Clear") because the content sits in the "Gentle" range — no conflict beyond everyday childhood experiences. Across our four dimensions (emotional, physical, social, thematic) the book reads as evenly gentle; no single dimension stands out as a concern.
No specific content flags were raised by community reviewers, which is consistent with the gentle intensity score.
Thematically, Stand Up, Shake Hands, Say How Do You Do explores manners & etiquette, friendship, family, coming of age, and social skills — these threads give the book room to mean different things to different readers.
Good fit for
- ✓ Children in the Ages 13+ range — the maturity and attention span match the story's pacing.
- ✓ Patient readers who enjoy slower, character-driven stories.
- ✓ Kids drawn to stories about manners & etiquette, friendship, family.
Maybe not for
- ! Readers whose emotional readiness lags behind their decoding skills — this book's intensity outruns its reading level, a classic "gifted kid" mismatch.
- ! Reluctant readers who need a fast hook — the pacing here rewards patience.
For Parents
Content Intensity
9C — ClearNo conflict beyond everyday childhood experiences. Safe for sensitive readers.
Was our "Gentle" content intensity rating accurate for this book?
Reading Insights
Hook Factor
1/10A steady, thoughtful read that rewards patient readers.
Discussion Potential
2/10A lighter read — great for independent enjoyment.
Book DNA
Multi-dimensional content fingerprint
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Details
Book Length
- ISBN
- 9780883311004
- Pages
- 134
- Publisher
- Robert B. Luce
- Published
- January 1989
- Type
- Fiction