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Me being me is exactly as insane as you being you
Todd Hasak-Lowy
Me being me is exactly as insane as you being you
Age Rating, Reading Level & Content Guide
by Todd Hasak-Lowy
The text is written at a 7th grade reading level, the subject matter is intended for middle graders (ages 9–12), and the content has moderate intensity with some emotionally heavy themes.
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About This Book
What happens when everything you thought was normal suddenly changes? Darren’s parents split up, his brother heads off to college, and then his dad shares a big secret that shakes their family even more. How does Darren make sense of all these surprises while figuring out who he really is?
Themes
Quick Assessment
This middle-grade novel explores the challenges of family change through the eyes of a fifteen-year-old navigating his parents' divorce, his brother's departure to college, and his father's coming out as gay. Presented through a unique series of lists, it sensitively addresses themes of identity, family dynamics, and adolescent growth, appropriate for readers aged 9-12. Parents should note the book deals with divorce and LGBTQ+ themes in a thoughtful, age-appropriate manner.
Why we rated Me being me is exactly as insane as you being you 12ME
Me being me is exactly as insane as you being you is written at a Level 7-8 reading level with a Lexile measure of 1010L across 646 pages. Strong independent readers around grade 8.5 can typically handle this book on their own; with parent or teacher support, Me being me is exactly as insane as you being you works for readers up to grade 9.5.
We rate Me being me is exactly as insane as you being you as 12ME ("Moderate — Emotional") because the content sits in the "Moderate" range — moderate conflict that may involve loss, scary scenes, or interpersonal stakes. The strongest signals come from emotional weight — these are the dimensions parents should evaluate against their reader's tolerance.
No specific content flags were raised by community reviewers, which is consistent with the moderate intensity score.
Thematically, Me being me is exactly as insane as you being you explores family, coming of age, identity & self-discovery, lgbtq+ representation, and divorce & family change — these threads give the book room to mean different things to different readers.
Good fit for
- ✓ Children in the Ages 9-12 range — the maturity and attention span match the story's pacing.
- ✓ Patient readers who enjoy slower, character-driven stories.
- ✓ Readers ready to talk through themes after they finish — there's enough substance for a meaningful conversation.
- ✓ Kids drawn to stories about family, coming of age, identity & self-discovery.
Maybe not for
- ! Readers who get easily upset by emotional or moderately dark scenes — the conflict here is real, not just background flavor.
- ! Reluctant readers who need a fast hook — the pacing here rewards patience.
For Parents
Content Intensity
12ME — Moderate — EmotionalReal stakes and emotional weight. May include sustained danger, loss, or bullying.
Was our "Moderate" content intensity rating accurate for this book?
Reading Insights
Hook Factor
1/10A steady, thoughtful read that rewards patient readers.
Discussion Potential
4/10Good conversation starter with themes worth exploring together.
Book DNA
Multi-dimensional content fingerprint
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Details
Book Length
- ISBN
- 9781442495739
- Pages
- 646
- Publisher
- Simon and Schuster
- Published
- 2015
- Type
- Fiction
- Lexile
- 1010L