Children who resist post-separation parental contact
Barbara Jo Fidler
Children who resist post-separation parental contact
Age Rating, Reading Level & Content Guide
A Differential Approach for Legal and Mental Health Professionals
by Barbara Jo Fidler
The text is written at a 7th grade reading level, the subject matter is intended for middle graders (ages 9–12), and the content has moderate intensity with some emotionally heavy themes.
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About This Book
What if you had to choose between two parents who don’t get along? Imagine feeling stuck in the middle, confused about who to trust and where you belong. How can kids find their own voice when grown-ups disagree?
Themes
Quick Assessment
This book explores the difficult issue of children resisting contact with a parent after separation or divorce. Aimed at adults rather than children, it provides a comprehensive, research-based overview of parental alienation, its causes, and effects, with practical guidance for legal and mental health professionals. While the reading level is suitable for middle-grade readers, the content is complex and focuses on family dynamics and psychological challenges that require adult understanding.
Why we rated Children who resist post-separation parental contact 12ME
Children who resist post-separation parental contact is written at a Level 7 reading level across 324 pages. Strong independent readers around grade 8.0 can typically handle this book on their own; with parent or teacher support, Children who resist post-separation parental contact works for readers up to grade 9.0.
We rate Children who resist post-separation parental contact as 12ME ("Moderate — Emotional") because the content sits in the "Moderate" range — moderate conflict that may involve loss, scary scenes, or interpersonal stakes. The strongest signals come from emotional weight — these are the dimensions parents should evaluate against their reader's tolerance.
Specific content flags noted by reviewers: Divorce & Family Change, Fear & Anxiety, Emotional: Identity & Self-Discovery.
Thematically, Children who resist post-separation parental contact explores family, psychology, divorced people, counseling, and separation anxiety — these threads give the book room to mean different things to different readers.
Good fit for
- ✓ Children in the Ages 9-12 range — the maturity and attention span match the story's pacing.
- ✓ Patient readers who enjoy slower, character-driven stories.
- ✓ Readers ready to talk through themes after they finish — there's enough substance for a meaningful conversation.
- ✓ Kids drawn to stories about family, psychology, divorced people.
Maybe not for
- ! Readers who get easily upset by emotional or moderately dark scenes — the conflict here is real, not just background flavor.
- ! Reluctant readers who need a fast hook — the pacing here rewards patience.
For Parents
Content Intensity
12ME — Moderate — EmotionalReal stakes and emotional weight. May include sustained danger, loss, or bullying.
Content Flags
Was our "Moderate" content intensity rating accurate for this book?
Reading Insights
Hook Factor
1/10A steady, thoughtful read that rewards patient readers.
Discussion Potential
4/10Good conversation starter with themes worth exploring together.
Book DNA
Multi-dimensional content fingerprint
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Details
Book Length
- ISBN
- 9780199895496
- Pages
- 324
- Publisher
- Oxford University Press
- Published
- 2012
- Type
- Fiction